Saturday, November 26, 2011

Salam MAAL HIJRAH ~ 1 Muharam 1433H

Sejarah Hari Maal Hijrah
Hari Awal Muharram atau Hari Maal Hijrah merupakan suatu hari yang penting bagi umat Islam kerana ia menandakan peristiwa penting yang berlaku dalam sejarah Islam. Ia memperingati penghijrahan Nabi Muhammad dari Kota Makkah ke Madinah pada tahun 622 Masihi. Berlaku pada 1 Muharam, ia merupakan hari pertama Takwim Hijrah.
MUHARAM adalah bulan pertama dalam tahun Islam (Hijrah). Sebelum Rasulullah berhijrah dari Makkah ke Yathrib, kiraan bulan dibuat mengikut tahun Masihi. Hijrah Rasulullah memberi kesan besar kepada Islam sama ada dari sudut dakwah Rasulullah, ukhuwwah dan syiar Islam itu sendiri.
Pada asasnya, Muharam membawa maksud 'diharamkan' atau 'dipantang', iaitu Allah SWT melarang melakukan peperangan atau pertumpahan darah. Namun demikian larangan ini ditamatkan setelah pembukaan Makkah (Al Baqarah: 91). Sejak pemansuhan itu, umat Islam boleh melaksanakan tugas dan ibadat harian tanpa terikat lagi dengan larangan berkenaan.




DOA AKHIR TAHUN 1432 HIJRAH
Doa Akhir Tahun dibaca 3 kali pada akhir waktu Asar atau sebelum masuk waktu Maghrib pada akhir bulan Zulhijjah.



Maksudnya:
Segala puji hanya bagi Allah, tuhan yang memelihara dan mentadbir sekalian alam. Selawat dan salam ke atas junjungan kami Nabi Muhammad S.A.W. serta ahli keluarga baginda dan para sahabatnya.
Ya Allah, sesungguhnya pada tahun ini aku telah melakukan laranganMu tetapi aku masih belum bertaubat sedangkan Engkau tidak reda dan melupai perkara itu. Engkau telah menangguhkan azabMu yang telah ditetapkan kepadaku. Engkau telah memerintahkan supaya aku bertaubat dari keslahan itu. Sesungguhnya pada hari ini aku memohon keampunan dariMu, ampunilah aku dan apa yang telah aku lakukan pada tahun ini yang Engkau redai dan Engkau janjikan pahala maka aku memohonnya daripada Engkau. Ya Allah, ya Karim, ya Zaljalali wal ikram.
Selawat dan salam ke atas junjungan kami Nabi Muhammad S.A.W serta ahli keluarga baginda dan para sahabatnya.. Segala puji hanya bagi Allah, tuhan yang memelihara dan mentadbir sekalian alam.



DOA AWAL TAHUN 1433 HIJRAH
Doa Awal Tahun dibaca 3 kali selepas maghrib pada malam satu Muharram.



Maksudnya:
Segala puji hanya bagi Allah, tuhan yang memelihara dan mentadbir sekalian alam. Selawat dan salam ke atas junjungan kami Nabi Muhammad S.A.W. serta ahli keluarga baginda dan para sahabatnya.
Ya Allah, Engkaulah yang kekal abadi untuk selama-lamanya. Demi kelebihanMu yang Maha Agung dan kemurahanMu yang melimpah, sesungguhnya pada tahun ini aku memohon kepadaMu perlindungan daripada syaitan yang direjam, dari sekalian kuncunya, tenteranya dan penolongnya. Aku juga memohon perlindungandari nafsu amarah yang sentiasa mendorong ke arah kejahatan dan melalaikan dengan perkara yang tidak berfaedah daripada mendekatkan diriku kepadaMu.
Selawat dan salam ke atas junjungan kami Nabi Muhammad. Segala puji hanya bagi Allah, tuhan yang memelihara dan mentadbir sekalian alam.

[source; www.resepirahsiaku.com]

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Sleepless nite

Nearly a month; nothing to write @ update



Until this sleepless nite

Don't knw y, couldn't sleep..

Writing sumtin on assignmnt ~ surfing n saving documents

Getting bored, still awake till 5.00am

Stood & praise to Allah SWT ~ pray & du'a

Praying for peaceful hearts & happiness always, inshaAllah..

Continue searching for nothing on net..

Till found mixpod ~ upload few video which my fav songs

Thinking of something, someone..

Memories still remains in darkness nite

Enjoying listening to the music I added

which these lyrics are meaningful to me..

Singing till I sleep...



"I heard that you settled down

That you found a girl and you're married now

I heard that your dreams came true

Guess she gave you things, I didn't give to you

Old friend why you so shy?

Ain't like you to hold back or hide from the light

I hate to turn up out of the blue, uninvited

But I couldn't stay away, I couldn't fight it

I had hoped you see my face and that you'd be reminded

That for me , it isn't over...

Nevermind i'll find someone like you

I wish nothing but the best for you, too

Don't forget me, I begged, I remember you said

Sometimes it lasts in love

But sometimes its hurts, instead.."

~ Someone Like You


"You can count on me like 1 2 3

I'll be there, I know when I need it

I can count on you like 4 3 2

And you'll be there coz that's friends are supposed to do

oh yeah, ooh, ooh, yeah, yeah

You'll always have my shoulder when you cry

I'll never let go, never say goodbye"

~ Count On Me



"Its been said and done

Every beautiful thoughts been already sung

I guess right now here's another one

So your melody will play on and on won't the best of 'em

U're beautiful, like a dream come alive, incredible

A centerfold miracle, lyrical

You saved my life again n I want u to knw baby..

I love u like a love song baby

And I keep hitting repeat, peat, peat, peat, peat.."


~ Love You Like A Love Song

Wednesday, November 09, 2011

SEJARAH FACEBOOK

Facebook adalah sebuah social networking yang baru saja dirintis pada tahun 2006 oleh seorang mahasiswa Harvard yang bernama Mark Zuckerberg. Mark Elliot Zuckerberg atau Mark Zuckerberg lahir lahir pada 14 Mei 1984 di Dobbs Ferry, Westchester County, New York, Amerika Serikat (AS).

Idea awal ketika dia bersekolah di Exeter High School, New Hampshire. Saat itulah dia berkenalan dengan Adam D’Angelo. Zuckerberg lulus dan masuk Harvard University, awalnya membuat program Coursematch yang memungkinkan mahasiswa di kelas yang sama dapat melihat daftar rakan-rakan sekelas. Projek selanjutnya membuat facemash.com. Dari situ para pengunjung boleh memberi komen “suka” atau “tidak suka” foto seorang siswa, dan membuat Zuckerberg dipanggil oleh Badan Pentadbiran Universitas Harvard kerana dianggap menceroboh sistem komputer kampus, melanggar peraturan privasi di internet, dan melanggar hak cipta.

Oleh kerana itu ia mebuat Facebook dan dilancarkanya pada tahun 2004. Dalam waktu singkat duapertiga mahasiswa Harvard jadi pengguna Facebook. Teman sebiliknya, Dustin Moskovitz dan Chris Hugh, berhasil mengembangkan sayap ke Universitas Stanford, Columbia, Yale, Ivy College, dan beberapa sekolah lainnya di wilayah Boston. Dalam waktu singkat, mereka meluncurkan Facebook ke 30 sekolah.

Zuckerberg bersama Moskovitz dan beberapa teman lain pindah ke Palo Alto, California, cuti musim panas 2004 menyewa rumah kecil buat pejabat. Oleh kerana ingin mengerjakan Facebook dengan serius mereka meninggalkan Harvard. Di pejabatnya itulah Zuckerberg bertemu Peter Thiel, pencipta Paypal, dengan dana sebesar US$ 500.000 ,merupakan pelabur pertama mereka sehingga mereka dapat pindah ke pejabat yang lebih besar di di Universitas Avenue yang dinamai sebagai pejabat “Kampus Urban”.
Pada 23 Ogos 2005 Zuckerberg membeli domain facebook.com dari Aboutface Corporation senilai US$ 200.000 . Pada 2 September 2005, Zuckerberg melancarkan Facebook khusus untuk kanak-kanak sekolah menengah atas. Hanya dalam waktu 15 hari sejak peluncurannya, sebagian besar sekolah di AS sudah menjadi anggotanya. pada akhir tahun 2005, Facebook telah mencakup sekitar 2.000 kampus dan 25.000 sekolah menengah atas di AS, Kanada, Inggeris, Mexico, Puerto Riko, Australia, Selandia Baru, dan Irland.

Pada 27 Februari 2006, dia mulai mengizinkan para mahasiswa yang menjadi pengguna untuk menambahkan siswa-siswa sekolah menengah atas sebagai temannya. BusinessWeek, melansir kabar bahwa Zuckerberg tengah berbincang dengan calon pembeli potensi Facebook. Tapi, akhirnya, dia menolak tawaran yang disebut-sebut bernilai US$ 750 juta kerana, Zuckerberg menganggap harga itu terlalu murah.

Pada April 2006, pelabur pertama , iaitu Peter Thiel, Greylock Partners, dan Meritech Capital Partners, menambah pelaburan di Facebook dengan mengemukakan dana US$ 25 juta. Facebook pun masuk ke India melalui Institut Teknologi India dan Institut Manajemen India.

Dia juga memberikan fasiliti Facebook Notes. Fitur baru ini merupakan fitur blogging yang memungkinkan pengguna memberikan tagging, memasukkan gambar, dan fitur-fitur lainnya. Selain itu, pengguna dapat mengimpot blog dari situs Xanga, LiveJournal, Blogger, dan situs blogging lainnya. Berkat fitur baru tersebut, pembaca dapat memberikan komentar terhadap tulisan yang dimuat pengguna Facebook. September 2006, Zuckerberg membuka layanan Facebook bagi semua pengguna internet. Namun, langkah ini justru menuai protes dari para pengguna dan pelanggan setianya. Alhasil, dua minggu berselang Facebook terpaksa membenahi layanan baru itu dengan membuka pendaftaran bagi pengguna internet yang mempunyai alamat surat atau e-mail yang jelas.

Peter Thiel, memprediksi pendapatan situs ini pada 2015 nanti dapat mencapai US$ 1 milion. Pada saat itu, nilai perusahaan pun bakal ikut meroket menjadi sekitar US$ 8 milion. Ada juga iklan baris gratis di Facebook. Fitur yang diberi nama Facebook Marketplace ini dilancarkan pada 14 Mei 2007. Layanan baru ini pun langsung menjadi pesaing perusahaan-perusahaan online lain. Craigslist yang sudah lebih dulu menempatkan iklan baris di situsnya. Bisnes Zuckerberg pun kian mengalir lancar. Bahkan, Apple rela memperpanjang kerja sama dengan Facebook untuk memajang contoh muzik iTunes.

Facebook membeli perusahaan Parakey Inc., dari Blake Ross dan Joe Hewitt, pada Julai 2007. Parakey adalah produksi aplikasi komputer yang mempermudah transfer data berupa tulisan, gambar, dan video ke sebuah situs di internet. Bill Gates, pada Oktober 2007 membeli 1,6% saham Facebook seharga US$ 240 juta. Zuckerberg tidak berniat menjual semua saham Facebook sekaligus. Alasannya sederhana dan sungguh mulia, dia ingin Facebook tetap bebas.

Pada 7 November 2007, situs ini meluncurkan layanan terbaru berupa pemasangan iklan dengan sistem yang disebut Facebook Beacon. Triliuner Hongkong, Li Ka-shing, tertarik untuk menanamkan duit senilai US$ 60 juta di Facebook pada 30 November 2007.

Sekarang jumlah pegawainya sendiri telah mencapai 400 orang. Namun, Facebook adalah perusahaan unik. para eksekutif dan pegawainya masih berusia muda, antara 24 tahun-37 tahun. Markas besar Facebook lebih mirip asrama mahasiswa. Para pegawai, yang setiap hari mendapat jatah makan gratis, bekerja sambil melakukan kegiatan favoritnya. Ada yang bermain gitar, bermotor, main pesawat kontrol, atau menari ditemani muzik racikan seorang disc jockey (DJ). Mereka juga tak perlu berpakaian rapi. Seluar pendek dan kasut sandal adalah kostum kegemaran mereka di pejabat. Zuckerberg mengaku kurang selesa dengan suasana pejabat yang terlalu formal.

Meski sudah mampu menghimpun harta kekayaan hingga US$ 3 milion , Zuckerberg tetap tampil apa adanya, seperti pemuda kebanyakan yang menggemari pakaian santai.

Sumber :
a) http://amizax.wordpress.com/2011/03/21/facebook-agenda-siapa/
b) h
ttp://id.shvoong.com/humanities/history/1946922-sejarah-facebook/

Tuesday, November 08, 2011

Love You Like A Love Song

Everything's cool, yeah, it's all gonna be okay, yeah
And I know maybe I'll even laugh about it someday
But not today, no, 'cause I don't feel so good
I'm tangled up inside, my heart is on my sleeve
Tomorrow is a mystery to me

And it might be wonderful, it might be magical
It might be everything I've waited for a miracle
Oh, but even if I fall in love again with someone new
It could never be the way I loved you

Letting you go is making me feel so cold, yeah
And I've been trying to make believe it doesn't hurt
But that makes it worse, yeah, see, I'm a wreck inside
My tongue is tied and my whole body feels so weak
The future may be all I really need

And it might be wonderful, yeah, it might be magical, uh oh
It might be everything I've waited for a miracle
Oh, but even if I fall in love again with someone new
It could never be the way I loved you

Like a first love, the one and only true love
Wasn't it written all over my face, yeah?
I loved you like you loved me (Oh)
Like something pure and holy
Like something that can never be replaced

And it was be wonderful, it was magical
It was everything I've waited for a miracle
And if I should ever fall in love again with someone new
Oh, it could never be the way
No, it will never be the way I loved you


[song: Selena Gomez]

Patah Seribu

Walau kau tiada di sini
Ku tetap ingat semua pesanmu
Ku hidup seolah-olah kau masih ada
Bisikan kata kepadaku

Bilakah kau akan utuskan surat buatku
Aku terus menunggu tibanya kata cintamu

Oh.. patah seribu hatiku
Bila mengenangkan segala yang kita bina bersama
Haruskah ku lupa kerna engkau telah pergi

Biar pergimu tanpa relamu
Namun hatiku tetap rasa
Kejamnya kau meninggalkanku dengan nota-nota
Cinta buat kita berdua bila kan ku bisa menerima ketiadaanmu
Kan ku bakar semua hapuskan semua kenangan

Patah seribu hatiku
Bila mengenangkan segala yang kita bina bersama
Haruskah ku lupa kerna engkau telah pergi

Sayangku mohon padamu
Segera tinggalkanku
Pergilah kau ke tempat yang kau tuju
Pasti ada hikmah buatmu dan juga buat diriku
Pergilah…

[song: Shila Amzah]

5 Things You Should Know Before Giving Birth

By Julie Revelant

Planning for your baby’s birth can be one of the most exciting—and overwhelming—times in your life. You probably have a ton of questions and maybe even a vision about how you would like labor and delivery to go.


But making assumptions that your care provider understands your wishes, can only set you up for disappointment and frustration.


Yet having an open dialogue with your doctor or midwife can be one of the most empowering and important things you do for yourself and your baby. “Be very upfront with your provider about what you’re looking for,” said Catherine Ruhl, Director of Women’s Health Programs at the Association of Women’s Health, Obstetric, and Neonatal Nurses, and a practicing nurse-midwife.

Ruhl says to explore all of your options when choosing a provider and birth setting, and to always trust your instincts. “If there are red flags raised, you don’t feel that you’re getting the answers you want, or you don’t feel like they have the time, really listen to yourself,” she said. “Even if it’s the seventh or eighth month, consider going with another option.”


So what should you be talking to your care provider about? Here are some suggestions:

1. Cesarean section rates


According to the Centers for Disease Control, 32 percent of deliveries in the United States are by cesarean section. A C-section is major surgery, and with that comes risks, complications, and a longer recovery period. Knowing the C-section rates of your doctor, his/her practice, and the hospital you plan to give birth in, can clue you into the likelihood that you may end up with one.


2. Interventions


Some providers consider anything over 40 weeks of pregnancy “overdue,” while others are comfortable waiting until 42 weeks before inducing or scheduling a C-section. Pitocin, the most commonly used drug for induction, can also be used to augment a labor that has slowed when an epidural has been administered. Ask your provider about the circumstances she suggests interventions including induction, episiotomy, breaking your water, stripping your membranes, and using a vacuum or forceps.


3. Labor

If you want to spend most of your labor at home, find out when you should make your way to the hospital or birthing center. Once there, will you be required to be in bed, hooked up to an IV and have continuous fetal monitoring, or will you be able to walk around and be active? And when it comes to pushing, can you be in any position or will you have to birth on your back, which can make the delivery and recovery more difficult?


4. Pain relief


If you plan to have an epidural, find out what types of medications are offered and what the protocol is. If your plan is to have a natural birth, it’s important to find out what types of alternative pain-relief methods are available.


5. The birth plan


According to Ruhl, it’s not only important to review your birth plan with your provider, it’s also a good idea to contact a head nurse where you’re giving birth. “Say, ‘these are the things I want. How likely is that to happen on a busy day,’ ” she says. Like parenthood, childbirth can be very unpredictable, but arming yourself with knowledge can be very empowering.


“It’s essential to have clear communication with your midwife or doctor all the way through pregnancy and explore your options for labor and birth thoroughly. This is especially helpful if something unexpected happens,” she says.


[source: shine.yahoo]

5 Steps to Achieving Happiness at Work

By Laurie Tarkan

1. Have clear goals. Your boss needs to give you meaningful goals. You should understand what you’re working towards and why. Goals should be short-term and attainable, not vague and pie in the sky. First, try to clarify your own goals with the information you have.

“Then, find ways to get clarity from your supervisor. Ask and be prepared to state your reasons, and suggest ways that you can help your manager provide the clarity,”


2. Work autonomously.
People need some independence to attain these goals. If you are being micromanaged, you’re less likely to be creative and think on your own. But that doesn’t mean you can’t ask for help when you need it.

3. Having resources, like materials and personnel.
This is tough with all the cutbacks, but limited resources can lead to frustration and demoralization, not creativity. Sometimes, all that’s required is that your manager addresses some of your daily hassles. First, try to creatively find ways of making do with the resources you (and others in your team) have.

“Then, rally your team to ask the supervisor together, so the request isn’t coming from you alone,”


4. Have reasonable deadlines.
"We found that in general, extreme time pressure is bad for creative productivity, but low-to-moderate time pressure is good,"

If you have too many deadlines, discuss it with your boss. Otherwise, you’ll feel like you’re on a treadmill.


5. Learn from problems.
This means your supervisor and co-workers will not ridicule you if you try something that doesn’t work out, but instead will look at it analytically and try to figure out what went wrong and why.

“Coworkers can make it ‘safe’ for each other to discuss problems in the work and admit mistakes, by establishing norms of openly discussing failures to see what can be learned from them,”


[source: shine.yahoo]

Why Men Cheat vs Why Women Cheat


The Top Reasons Men and Women Cheat

For most men, sex is the primary motivating factor for cheating on their mate. The majority of the reasons cheating men give for their infidelity were directly or indirectly related to sex.

On the other hand, women who were cheating on their spouses or significant others had different motivations for their affairs. The primary motivating factors for cheating wives are linked to unmet emotional needs or dissatisfaction with their marriage, or their mate.

Below are the 10 most common reasons cheating husbands and cheating wives use to justify their extramarital affairs:

Top 10 Reasons Why Men Cheat

• more sex (the desire for a more active sex life)

• sexual variety (the desire for different type of sex or particular sex act)

• opportunistic sex ( presented with an opportunity to have sex without getting caught)

• to satisfy sexual curiosity (about having sex with a particular person)

• to reaffirm his sexuality

• a feeling of entitlement (the belief that it's a man's prerogative to cheat)

• the "thrill of the chase"

• the desire to feel important or special ( an ego boost)

• peer pressure

• sexual addiction


Top 10 Reasons Why Women Cheat

• lack of emotional intimacy (a desire for a close emotional bond)

• dissatisfaction with her mate

• marital or relationship unhappiness

• a desire for male attention

• to reaffirm her desirability (To feel validated as a woman)

• to re-experience feelings of romance

• a desire to feel "special"

• boredom

• loneliness

• sexual excitement


The Bottom Line on Why Men and Women Cheat

None of these are acceptable reasons for cheating on one's mate. However, in a nutshell, men tend to cheat largely for sexual reasons, while women cheat for emotional reasons. There are several studies on infidelity that bear that out. One study, in particular, found that 75% to 80% of the men who admitted to having extramarital affairs said that sex was their primary motivation. Only 20% of the women who were having extramarital affairs said they did so for purely sexual reasons.

Of course, the reasons listed above aren't the only reasons cheating men and cheating women are unfaithful to their mates. There are many other reasons as well. But these were the reasons most frequently given by cheating husbands and cheating wives who were willing to discuss why they were having an extramarital affair.

[source: shine.yahoo.com]

Do You Remember

I’ve been thinking about you
And how we used to be then
Back when we didn’t have to end we could start again

There’s nothing left to say

Don’t waste another day
Just you and me tonight
Everything will be okay
If it’s alright with you then it’s alright with me
Baby let’s take this time let’s make new memories

(Lets go..)

Do you remember do you remember do you remember
All of the times we had
Do you remember do you remember do you remember
All of the times we had
Let’s bring it back (Bring it back!)
Let’s bring it back (Bring it back!)
Let’s bring it back (Bring it back!)
Let’s bring it back (Bring it back!)
Let’s bring it back...

So long since you’ve been missing

It’s good to see you again
How you, how you doing
And how about we, don’t let this happen again...

(Lets go...)


There’s nothing left to say

Don’t waste another day
Just you and me tonight
Everything will be okay
If it’s alright with you then (hey) it’s alright with me (hey)
Baby let’s take this time (hey) let’s make new memories

(Lets go...)


Do you remember do you remember (Hey) do you remember (Oh yeah)

All of the times we had
Do you remember (Hey) do you remember do you remember (Hey)
All of the times we had
Let’s bring it back (Bring it back!) (Oh!)

Yo ay girl yo bring it back to the time when you and me had just begun
When I was still your number one
Well it might seem far-fetched baby girl but it can be done
I’ve got this feeling fire blazing and it’s hot just like the sun
Know you feel it too my girl just free it up, mek the good vibes run
Gal take a sip of my champagne,
Take a little trip down my lane my girl
wild'n out every night and we feel alright,
mek me tell you this girl, That a my world.
nah change and we nah rearrange, hey girl mek me tell you this straight that a my word,
and me heard say you want come kiss this, cause girl you miss this

That’s what I heard (I heard)


Tonight,
There’s nothing left to say
Don’t waste another day (Hey)
Just you and me tonight (Hey)
Everything will be okay (Hey)
If it’s alright with you (Hey) then it’s alright with me (Hey) Baby let’s take this time (Hey) let’s make new memories

(Lets go...)


Do you remember do you remember do you remember

All of the times we had
Do you remember (Hey) do you remember do you remember (Hey)
All of the times we had
Let’s bring it back (Let’s bring it back)
Let’s bring it back (Bring it back)
Let’s bring it back (Let’s bring it back)
Let’s bring it back (Oh)
Let’s bring it back

[song: Jay Sean ft Lil Don]

I'm GONE

I don't want to have to see you happy.
I can't even bare to see you smile.
Now-a-days I can't look in your eyes &...
Well I can but it takes a while
If you're strong?
Told a lot of white lies to hide it all.
But they're beginning to break me down,
Though I promise it's over now.

I'm gone.
I don't blame you at all.
'Cause after all the things that you did for me
Got beaten by temptation
I'm gone.
Girl you're better off alone.
I don't want you to see, the truth in me.

Try my best to keep it all together.
Try take it back to where we were.
Never been to good at keeping secrets,
Give you reasons but for what it's worth
Lemme go.

What the hell would make you look at me the same?
Used to say "We're unbrakeable."
But I just went & changed it all.

If I told you?
Could you live with that?
If I told you?
Could you live with that?
If I told you,
I couldn't live with that! I couldn't live with that!
Noooo!
I'd rather give you no excuses at all.

I'm gone.
I don't blame you at all.
'Cause after all the things that you did for me
Got beaten by temptation
I'm gone.
Girl you're better off alone.
I don't want you to see, the truth in me.

You gave everything & honestly it's every fault of mine.
To beg you for forgiveness just seems wrong.
See, leaving you is one thing
But you've got to realize:
Some things are best unspoken
So please don't ask me why!

Oh, you don't want to know
Oh, woah

I'm gone.
I don't blame you at all.
'Cause after all the things that you did for me
Got beaten by temptation
I'm gone.
Girl you're better off alone.
I don't want you to see, the truth in me.


[song: Jay Sean]